Want to have more freedom during your day this summer without sacrificing the order and predictability a routine brings? Here are some ideas for a summer schedule for kids.
“Aaah, summer – that long anticipated stretch of lazy, lingering days, free of responsibility and rife with possibility. It’s a time to hunt for insects, master handstands, practice swimming strokes, conquer trees, explore nooks and crannies, and make new friends.” – D. Hammond
It’s hot here already. Really hot. And when it gets hot everything changes for me.
I want to be outside.
I want to go swimming.
I want to plant things, mow things, and hit the beach.
And SO DO THE KIDS!
Since all my children are still small, there are pros and cons to spontaneity. The obvious pros are they get to do different things, stay up later, get up later, go on vacations, and just enjoy the season.
The cons are they don’t actually function well without routine.
They get fussy after a few days of erratic bedtimes. They start to behave badly and whine more when they don’t know what’s next.
Basically… they thrive on routine.
So in an effort to make the most of summer, loosen the reigns, and still maintain the benefits of routine you just have to be a tad more purposeful. Here are some ways to do that.
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1. Find a new rhythm
Go for a week or so and see what changes you’re naturally making. I found we were wanting to swim every day and eat dinner later. So I noticed what we tended to do and began tweaking our routine.
Dinner at 6 instead of 5? Okay. Bedtime at 8 instead of 7?
As long as they’re sleeping later too, sounds good!
Instead of putting kids in their rooms for independent play time closer to lunch, you might move it earlier in the morning so you are free until lunch or afternoon. You don’t have to do what you always did. You can make a new normal for a few months.
- Just give it a week or two and see what you end up doing during the day, then use that to make a more structured routine. If you create a Pie In The Sky routine out of nowhere you won’t likely keep it.
2. Change sleep times, but don’t sleep less
Kids don’t want to go to sleep in the dark.
I get that.
However, if they start staying up later but still get up at the same time you’re going to have cranky kids on your hands.
If their sleep routine was 7 pm – 7 am and has changed to 8 pm – 8 am, then that’s awesome! But if it’s changed to 9 pm – 6 am and no set naps because you’re out and about… after a few days this will result in over-tiredness.
If your kids can swing it then this may not be an issue, but if your kids are used to consistent naps and bedtimes you’ll want to be sure your routine changes still accommodate adequate sleep. And get black out curtains or shades.
- If you move bedtime back for a week and notice the kids are not sleeping any later in the morning or making it up during naptime, weigh whether their behavior is negatively affected. You’ll know if it’s going to work for everyone.
3. Add in seasonal fun
I am a summer girl at heart. That means I have tons of things lined up in my head and up my sleeve best done in summer months. Days at the park, beach, and pool can become a new norm in your routine.
Your new weekly outings may be the public pool instead of the library or outside play time instead of screen time. Our kids love movie night, but they also like swimming until nearly dark.
We may cut out movie night this summer OR even move it outside!
- Make a summer bucket list. Or do what Emily Ley does and keep track of the fun stuff you do on a whiteboard. That way it’s less pressure!
4. Be gradual
My kids embrace summer wholeheartedly, but they also take sometime adjusting.
They get physical exercise throughout the winter and spring, but nothing like they do in the summer.
Sun makes us more tired and so does continual exercise so if you’re having a very active or busy summer you may find that a total change in routine takes some adjusting. Change meal times, bedtimes, or activity times gradually and see how your children react.
- Don’t expect to move into a new season or routine without some hiccups. There will be high emotions and adjustment periods.
5. Don’t drop alone time
If you drop most scheduled things in your day, one thing I’d encourage you to work in is independent play time. My kids love having free days and unexpected outings and family time.
But if they miss their alone play for a few days in a row it is obvious in their behavior. They hate sharing, fight more, and get possessive over toys. By keeping that alone time in their day they behave more settled and actually get along better.
All kids want some time alone when they don’t have to share.
Rotate the toys, put each child in a separate room in the house, and voila. You may, however, want to change when they have their own play. You may want to move it to afternoon if they’re physically active in the mornings. You can tweak it to best fit your own family’s schedule.
- If your child has dropped a nap then rest time counts as a lone time. And it doesn’t matter if one’s in your walk-in closet and the other is outside or wherever. It only matters they are alone, they don’t have to share, and it’s relatively quiet!
6. Space it out
If you’re got exciting days and weeks ahead with fun things planned for your kids, try to space out the tiring days. Elementary aged children and up may be fine, but toddlers and preschoolers won’t cope well with multiple days in a row of out of the ordinary excitement.
Four late bedtimes in a row. Three days of no naps. Two days of all day outside. It sounds fun, but the effects will accumulate until you have unhappy campers.
It doesn’t mean don’t do fun things, but to consider your kids when you plan big events.
Have an Awesome Summer…
“Everything good, everything magical happens between the months of June and August.”
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