If you’ve got a few little ones in your home and each person doesn’t have a room, you may have found yourself getting creative with sleeping arrangements. I know we do!
Y’all know I talk a lot about sleeping.
All in all, I’m a control freak about kids’ sleep.
I don’t apologize for it and, when all my kids happen to be lacking in sleep, everyone else suddenly agrees with me!
➡️ Kids who aren’t well rested are more disobedient, fussy, unhappy, and even enjoy play less since they are unable to focus.
That said, it’s not always just “put the kids in the bed and everyone sleeps 12 hours” type of nonsense when you have little ones.
Different children need different things to transition into sleep time and, obviously, kids have different sleep needs.
I’ve yet to permanently have my kids share rooms, and I doubt I ever will.
As an only child (birth order matters, people!) I loved having my own room, and I want that for my kids.
We are doing some renovations in rooms right now and we’ve had to get creative with sleeping arrangements. Also, the baby still sleeps in our room for another month or so since he doesn’t have a designated nursery and is sleeping well through the night.
However, soon we’re going to move the baby out, but not to share… so I’m brainstorming creative ideas!
Here are reasons you’ll need to get creative with sleep:
- small spaces
- temporary relocation
- deciding which siblings should share based on personality
How to arrange where little ones sleep if you live in close quarters
If you are trying to figure all this I recommend using our daily logs to keep you on track. It’ll help get everything out of your head and onto paper.
1. Think Outside of the Bedroom.
I’ve said it a few times before, but your baby doesn’t have to spend the night in a bedroom!
Particularly not while they are very young and sharing is difficult.
My son spent 8 months napping and sleeping in the downstairs laundry room in Australia! It was climate controlled, able to be easily darkened, and away from the hustle and bustle of his older brother and sister.
If you can fit a crib or pack and play in the room, it’ll work.
Places you can safely put a baby to sleep if you don’t want baby to share with older siblings:
- Guest rooms
- The office
- Laundry room
- Guest bathroom (this has built in white noise if you have an exhaust fan!)
- Walk-in closet
- Living room
Your baby doesn’t have to share a room with your toddler or older child if it’s going to prevent good sleep or cause everyone to wake up at 5:30 am instead of 7:00 am.
Fast, simple, and free strategies to implement if baby can’t get to sleep, won’t *stay* asleep, or is unsettled in general.
2. Use a pack and play.
If you’re worried about using another area to sleep because you don’t want a permanent crib, I’m with you. We are currently switching my daughter and son between rooms, and renovating one room so my 23 month old is displaced.
He is also the child that does the worst room sharing.
When sharing he wakes at night, talks for hours, and wakes early in the morning to party. So I’m using the pack and play right now for my son to sleep in during the day in his brother’s room. In fact, all my babies have spent the first few months of their lives in pack and plays.
You can put a pack and play in any corner of the home for naps. Or if you have one child who no longer naps, the younger ones can take a nap in their room while they have rest time on the couch.
3. Assess personality.
It may not be the two oldest siblings who share well.
Or two of the same gender.
It may, in fact, be the oldest and the youngest and different genders to boot. When choosing who shares, the best thing to consider is personality and sleep habits.
One who consistently wakes early may not need to share with one who sleeps late. Unless you don’t mind everyone waking early, that is.
You can always test it out. Move one child in a play yard and test it out for a few nights. Of course the first night will be way too fun (for them) to get a clear idea. After a few nights you’ll see how it might go.
If one child talks or plays and keeps the other up at night, you may want to re-think arrangements.
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4. Nap in a different place than night sleep.
Unless they’re used to it from birth and both are tired and well-rested, your kids may find it difficult to nap when sharing a room.
Mine sure do!
They don’t have to nap where they sleep at night, however, so think outside the box. A child can nap in your room, but sleep in a shared room. They can nap at separate times (although I love having all my kids go down for naps at the same time) even, if it’ll help them nap longer.
- When Babies Go To One Nap: A Step By Step Guide
- Handling Multiple Children’s Naps In A Small Space
- How To Keep Older Siblings Quiet So Baby Can Nap