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How Diaper Issues Can Effect Baby Sleep – And What To Do

Updated January 15, 2021

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Diaper leaking affects baby’s sleep. Whether the diaper is too tight, too small, or baby is sensitive to being wet, this all affects sleep.


My firstborn was a girl and that all went really smoothly. No leaking diapers, no interrupted sleep, all pretty seamless.

Like the rest of the women in my family, she was efficient.

I have since then had 4 boys and they were a tad trickier. Each time I forgot one of the golden rules of putting diapers on a boy, and with each one they’ve experienced interrupted sleep due to diaper issues.

baby in a diaper

Luckily the fixes are easy, but I’m sure you can agree that being awoken in the night from a fussy baby or toddler who isn’t even hungry – but just has a leaky diaper – is the height of frustration. Both for them and for you.

Here’s hoping this helps you in surviving the newborn postpartum period and beyond.

1. Quality when it counts.

All diapers were not created equal. Not even close. Now, not everyone can afford to – or chooses to – buy the highest quality diapers all the time, and that’s fine.

Why? Because you’re talking about hours and hours of protection that diaper needs to give without leaking.

While lower quality diapers might do the trick during the day when you can change frequently, you don’t need bodily fluids of any type leaking out the legs at night.

It will wake your child up, make them feel very cold, and even possibly give them a cold if they sleep in wet pajamas for hours.

This is especially important if your baby or toddler doesn’t need to wake in the night to feed, therefore you don’t really want them to wake at all.

Read: Sleep Tips To Help Baby Sleep Well For The Long Term

toddler playing on bed in leaking diaper

2. Anatomical positioning.

Perhaps this was obvious to everyone but me, but I simply could not figure out with my firstborn son why his diaper kept leaking. 45 minutes of great sleep then BAM, diaper leak, awake baby.

Some kind soul who felt sorry for me asked if I was sure to position his anatomy downward in the diaper so that when he urinated it was actually absorbed and the light bulb went off.

If you put on the diaper and push his parts upwards, then when he pees during the night the urine will go upwards and thus leak.

Position the little man’s little man down then put on the diaper and problem solved!

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3. Double up or size up.

If you cloth diaper then consider adding extra inserts at night to prevent leaking. If you wear disposable diapers, use a high quality diaper at night and consider going up a size.

Since the goal is for them to sleep as long as they can at night and not wake up just for a diaper change, giving a larger diaper at night will help stop this.

Now don’t go up so large it can’t fit snugly around the leg, but usually one size up will still fit well enough not to leak if it’s a good diaper i in the first place.

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4. Change at dream feed.

Currently my 2.5 month old is able to go the majority of the night without a diaper change.

If the diaper isn’t dirty I don’t change at every single night feed because changing (especially during the winter) is a great way to fully wake them up which is not the goal here.

I am sure to change the diaper at the 10:30 or 11:00 pm feed  and it’ll usually last until he wakes up for the morning at 7:30 am or 8:00.

Now, this is because he doesn’t feed often between those two times, but still. What you want to avoid is a 5:30 am baby or toddler with a leaking diaper who then refuses to go back to sleep.

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5. Less liquids before bed.

In the same way you’d not want to give too much liquid to a child you are training to go without a diaper at night, for toddlers it’s a good idea to cut back on liquids after dinner.

If you put your toddler to bed with a bottle or sippy cup (which there is nothing wrong with, of course) it will likely result in them waking up with a leaky diaper unless you’ve gone up one size in a good quality diaper.

Read: Baby Or Toddler Fighting Diaper Changes? Stop The Madness With These Tips!

FAQs about Diapers

What do you do when baby’s diaper leaks at night?

You can buy bigger diapers, change before baby’s bed, change before your bed, use booster pads, or (if baby’s old enough) eliminate nighttime feedings for less wetness.

Should I use a lining inside the diaper?

Great idea! Diaper booster pads will help absorb some of the initial wetness and then let the diaper grab the rest. This should prevent leaking if there’s a lot of pee going on.

What are the best overnight diapers for toddlers?

You’ll want to buy the highest quality of diaper you can for your budget. You can use the less expensive diapers during the day, but save the good ones for night.

Are you supposed to change a baby’s diaper every time they pee?

If baby is up and walking around with a wet diaper, sure, change it! If baby is asleep and diaper is not leaking, leave it until the next wake up.

Should I change a poopy diaper if baby is sleeping?

If baby is sleeping peacefully and not in discomfort, do not wake to change diaper. Wait until baby has woken up and then change. If baby has a diaper rash, you may want to gently change the diaper when you notice it’s dirty. Alternatively, you can change baby’s diaper before you go to sleep.

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Comments

  1. Kate says

    I would definitely use this kind of Huggies if they had a wetness indicator. Other kinds of Huggies and Pampers have them, so I’m not sure why this kind doesn’t. Other than waiting for a diaper to get huge and full, I can’t always tell when my daughter is wet. I’m not sure if this comment will ever get back to Huggies, but I hope it does.

    Very good tip on the anatomy thing. That wouldn’t have occurred to me either.

    • Rachel Norman says

      Honestly, it didn’t occur to me! Ha. And even on my third boy I forgot for about a week and kept thinking, “Why on earth are they leaking?” Huggies does have a wetness indicator for some of the sizes in this new type of diaper. And I”m with you, it’s especially hard during the winter when they’re all rugged up.

  2. kara says

    Use Pampers. Huggies have a habit of leaking.

  3. Marie says

    Or you can use cloth diapers, and never deal with leaks. Bonus: Never buy another box of disposable diapers, either! Modern cloth diapers are much easier to use and wash than what your grandmother used.

    • Rachel Norman says

      Marie, I would say that I agree with you except my cloth diapers leaked :(. I used pocket one size kawaii diapers and not only could I never get the smell out, they leaked! It could very well have been user error, though.

  4. Laura says

    With my oldest (a boy) I used Huggies Overnites when he got a bit older. They were more expensive than the regular kind but they really did the trick because he would get SO WET throughout the night.

    • Rachel Norman says

      Mine too ,girl, exactly!!! 90% of the time when my 18 month old wakes up early in the morning it’s because a diaper leaked! I say you can do the best at night and stick with the more inexpensive during the day if budget is tight!

  5. Chelsea says

    Thanks for the information! I haven’t really thought about the making sure his “little man” is pointed down or not, but I certainly will now! :)

  6. Anna says

    Received a package of Huggies for our newborn after having used cloth diapers during day and Sventh Generation at night. huggies leaked almost but always (others did not) not to mention the bleaches they use are bad for baby’s skin. Would never buy Huggies or even use them again if given as a gift.

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