Does your baby or toddler nap well at home, but not elsewhere? If you’d like your baby or toddler to nap well at friends, family, or hotels then this post will help. This is a sponsored post written by me on behalf of Fisher-Price . All opinions are 100% mine.
You decide to go to a mom’s group. Or a family member’s home. Or a friend’s house.
You decide you’ll put the baby down as normal and give yourself a chance to visit and relax.
You put the baby down. The baby doesn’t sleep. The baby cries. You pick up the baby. Now the baby is tired and fussy and you are no longer having fun. And you are trying to roll a stroller around to get the baby to sleep and so you may as well be at home since, really, the whole reason you wanted to get out was because you never leave the house.
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Ahh…. I’ve been there. At times, you can just hang out and not put your baby to sleep, of course. But if the baby is used to sleeping and you are away from home for a long time, he will need to nap eventually. And so when that time comes, here are some tips to help your baby (or toddler) nap well elsewhere.
(Note: I don’t think it’s a great idea to put a baby down on a bed, even surrounded by something to prevent them from falling. If you don’t have something like a play pen – that I mentioned in this post about using one baby item 8 ways – then I’d recommend putting them straight on the floor.)
- Nap in another room in your home. One tip to help create a flexible napper, is to let your baby take one nap a day, or a few times a week if they are older, in another room of the house. Whether you put the play pen in another room or let your baby sleep in the toddler’s crib, this will help your baby acclimate to putting themselves to sleep somewhere different than the norm.
- Get white noise. White noise is a positive sleep association that is not location specific. It will also help mask any unfamiliar noises the new location may have, so there will be less unfamiliar disruption.
- Don’t skip the routine. If you normally have a long drawn out naptime routine, you may want to shorten it. However, don’t throw out the entire naptime routine because that’ll also be a positive sleep association that’ll help your baby or toddler settle down.
- Bring familiar objects. One thing I always do when I want my kids to nap elsewhere is to bring a familiar blanket, pacifier, and play pen. Normally at home, I’ll put a blanket over the side of the play pen to block out light and distractions. I’ll bring the same blanket and do the same thing in the unfamiliar location because then, essentially, the only thing they’re seeing different is the ceiling.
- Set the scene. I close the curtains, turn on the white noise, and change the diaper. Earlier this summer we stayed at a beach house and the rooms were a lot brighter than the kids were used to. We just took a few towels and hung them haphazardly over the windows to make it more dim.
- Mind overtiredness and overstimulation. When napping at other peoples’ homes or locations, I usually try to put them down for nap right on time, if not a bit early. Overtiredness + a new location = not good napping.
- Give it time. If you are going to be somewhere all morning, let the baby or toddler have a chance to nap even if they fight it for a while. If they are happy enough then I’ll give it a bit extra time. They’ll usually fall asleep eventually, but I know they will also likely not take long naps either.
Here’s a video that shows how easy the Fisher-Price play pen is to actually put together, even for someone who is not a mom of tiny kids used to doing all that type of thing.
It’s half as light as other play yards in the market, it’s multi-purpose and can be used for both play and sleep, and here’s a video that shows how easy it is to set up. I would definitely consider looking into it, you can Purchase at Walmart here.
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Rachel, my name is Jenny and my family and I are missionaries in Central Mexico. We take the Gospel of Jesus Chris to the indigenous people groups of the area, which means we are in the jungle, sitting in huts on hard wood boards for hours, far from home and unable to carry around a lot of baby stuff, like a pack-n-play or sleeping cues.
I am so thankful that you are a visionary and a follower of Jesus. Here is something maybe you can pray with me about. I’ve read your blogs on sleeping because I am praying for advice on how to help my 16 week old daughter sleep when we are preaching and on visits, which can take all day. She sleeps well at home in her crib but no where else. She gets overtired and it takes a day or two to resolve. On days I stay home, we do white noise, close the curtains, and she gets plenty of rest. But that can’t be everyday because God has called us to “Go”.
If you have any suggestions how to help her sleep while out and about, please let me know. Again, thank you!
Jenny, have you done my free video course? Here’s a link to it! I hope it’ll help you. And bless your family for the work you do there! http://www.coostosnooze.com/free-sleep-tips
Thank you so much! There is someone out there feeling the same way as I do! So lonely. I have a 3 year old and a 1 year old. I greatly need a mommy friend as we recently moved but it is so hard getting together, with nap schedules and colds!Wonderful! I love reading stories like this, you must have been so proud. Hope you’re all doing well now!
I’m no more proud than you should be. It can be lonely as a mom but I tell myself it’s a short season. I hope that’s true, ha :)
Hi Rachel, love your posts! I am trying to get my baby to sleep at other people’s houses occasionally. She is 4.5 months & sleeps great at home and is on a good schedule. My father and stepmother have recently purchased a crib for their house, placed it in a room with dark curtains, and I think she will probably nap there. My question is: do you think it’s ok to let her fall asleep there at her regular bedtime then pack her up later in the evening and take her home? If so, any tips for making this work? (They have mentioned they’d like us to do this from time to time, like holidays, but I’m just not sure if it would throw her off course…it would be nice if we were able to do this once in awhile.) Thanks in advance!
Victoria, I think that’s a great idea. If she can keep her bedtime all the better, she’ll be drowsy when youw ake her but it shoudln’t be a big deal on the occasional evening. And a blessing to grandparents too!